If she doesn’t reach that imagined goal, she’s liable to feel more frustrated, disappointed, and as if something is wrong with her or that she is not good enough, conclusions which feed a vicious circle that may continue to create a shield that blocks her from her highest potentials. Instead of being present – relaxing, enjoying, receiving pleasure, and expressing joy freely – she will be trying to reach somewhere else, a mental projection built from what she thinks she should be experiencing. Most of all, she’ll be taken away from the present moment – the opportunity to fully enter a deep relationship with herself. When a woman tries to reach orgasm or her man aims to give her enough pleasure to reach orgasm, she is pushed into a subtle form of stress and such a goal-oriented approach can even block its intended result. However, the best attitude for approaching a massage should not be oriented toward expectations and goals, but rather toward: pure openness…. Tantra Massage for women indeed helps women open and relax in such a way as to experience different states of orgasm during the massage itself.
Others are not fully satisfied and fulfilled in their sexual life and they want to learn how to expand their orgasmic potential. In fact, many women come for yoni massage because they are non-orgasmic. Many women are very hesitant, either because they have self-esteem issues which block their ability to receive or they have been subjected to some form of abuse or trauma which has closed them down physically and/or emotionally. When a woman is drawn to vaginal, or yoni, massage for its therapeutic benefits or ability to activate and magnify her pleasure potential, she does not always come boldly and directly.
Tantra Massage for Women – Effects and Benefits We conclude together with some sharing and a hug. Then we will conclude with another short meditation before you dress to leave.
Men learn to increase their pleasure without ejaculating and, therefore, to increase their virility and become better lovers. Women will receive a “map” for their yoni (vagina), releasing pain if any exists and learning to increase the pleasure at the different orgasmic points inside the yoni. I’ll touch base with you frequently, asking how you feel and guiding you through the process. When we start the bodywork, I ask you to stay fully present and communicate with me about anything which comes up for you during your session. You will be asked to set your intentions and declare your purpose for the session as part of its ceremonial beginnings – a powerful phase during which you are freeing and clearing yourself of negative interference and aligning yourself with the creative process at hand.
I will introduce the session and prepare our time with a guided meditation.